Respect Limitations, and Don't Expect What You Won’t Give

https://www.insidehook.com/article/sex-and-dating/perfectly-fine-men-not-want-go-down-women?eid=f3e0ee4d6f2e51f067024759e7666dd8&utm_source=InsideHook&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=nation

As this article mentions, life's too short not to have your sexual needs met. That said, you can't demand that any particular person be willing to meet those needs, and you've got to be honest with yourself and your partner(s) about exactly what those needs are. Beyond that, respect people's limitations, don't expect what you're not willing to give, and be really freakin grateful if you wind up with someone who decides to be generous with you anyway. For example, if she's okay with you passing on the roast beef sandwich, you can at least demonstrate your appreciation of her flesh flute-playing skills with a big ass thank you 🙏 and by lending her a hand with *whatever* she might need.